How YOU Doin’?

gorgeous guy

OK… Now That I have your attention!

Just wanted to remind everyone
that it’s #Movember

Movember is an annual event
involving the growing of mustaches
during the month of November
to raise awareness of men’s health issues,
such as prostate cancer, testicular cancer,
and men’s suicide.

Use this reminder to get the men in your life
to make DR appts and KEEP THEM

All’s well that ends well is ONLY true
if it ends in a long long time ‚̧

You can find out more about it at Movember .com

#menshealth #MoSista

How Have You Changed The World?

“I haven’t, you say?”

“Well, get off your phone, get to gettin’ and Make it happen. Time waits for
no one… not even me, in this gorgeous outfit!” ūüíč

Kymmberly in pink drinking coffee in kitchen
(yeh, right!!)

Who Is Kymmberly & Why Should Anyone Care or The Story of Business, Bacon & Books And How They Rock

(The Loooong Version)

Hi I’m Kymmberly                                  

I’m a DoOver & Accountability Coach who lives a
Proverbs 31 Home Based Lifestyle
and advocates the same
for Moms, Dads, Boomers,
Late Bloomers, Under Achievers,
& Couch Potatoes. 

Also a Proud Family Empowerment Advocate

I’m also sometimes known as:

 Kymmberly ~ Woman On A Mission

What do I stand for & believe in?

God 1st~Family 2nd~Then Business. Business. Business

I ‚ô• Business & everything about it. I live to Love business.

I LOVE bacon-almost as much as business.  I probably should have gone into the bacon business, but there is not much call for paying people to eat bacon, no matter how effusively they can do it… just sayin.

I love Books. Especially books about business. I also love children’s books. Not cheap children’s books…but real good children’s books. 

But mostly, just books about business and almost everything that pertains to business.

I’m writing one right now. A book. A business book about business.
(Sometimes, I eat bacon while I think about what to write, but who wouldn’t, right?)

Anyway, I’ll let you know when it is finished, so you can buy it. I’ll want you to.
Buy it, that is. That way I will be able to bring home MORE bacon. (that was a good one, wasn’t it?)

Business, Bacon & Books…Rock 

I also love humor.

A sense of humor is a must in a healthy life and if you don’t have one,
you need to go GET one, ’cause you won’t last 15 seconds around me
without one, and you really DO want to hang around me, cause I’ve got “the stuff.”

The Stuff you need to know about Business especially a home based one.

My Passions & Purpose Include:

being a Live Life “On Purpose” Advocate,
helping to Build Empowered Families,
creating Healthy Boomers who Live Young, Long, & Prosper
teaching YOU to Know Your Worth, and to BE what
you were created to BE so you can
DO what you were created to Do in order to
Live Life By The Book & on Your Terms
(which [here on my site at least] are God’s terms- not the world’s broken messed up terms) and God’s terms are gonna be best anyway

I teach PAUSE. It’s my system for success in life and I am sold on it.

Abundant Finances
Unwavering Faith
Strong Family & Self Awareness
Empowered by the Actions from their combined strengths

as the building blocks for
success in life,
an empowered Family &
a strong community

…and a strong empowered community is not only
a better community but one that can CHANGE THE WORLD.

My Mission & Vision

My mission is to
“Change the World. One Person, One Family, One Business at a Time”
I expect to make a difference in this world by “living, breathing and DOING” my purpose with passion,  and helping others to discover & do the same with theirs.

It is my belief that this will bring on the realization of my vision, which is a world full of happy healthy empowered people living “Life By The Book” and doing what they were created to Do, because they know who they were created to BE.

[ My mission and vision are VERY important parts of who I am and why I do what I do, and while I do see humor in almost everything and it’s hard to squelch the twinkle in my eye,

I also thoroughly believe that there is a line that separates being a serious person and treating something seriously, and that is where my mission and vision sit.

      Bottom line: I am quite serious about them both, because when
      I finally DO
accomplish them, the world will hear more laughter
     while  it sees a
twinkle in almost every eye.

    (see how I did that-brought them both full circle?) ]

So, If you’ve read this far (you are my Hero), if living by default has not worked well for you, and you want to make the changes that will get you the life you were born to live , then let’s get together and see if what I do can work for you.

Life. On Purpose. With SPICE. By The Book.  Let’s make it happen together.

Know. Be. Do. Bless
Go, and make it so!

P.S Have you tried Maple Bacon? Tastes like candy. Pop over to YouTube and check out the channel “The Stay At Home Chef”.  She has a Spicy Maple Candied Bacon recipe that ROCKS

Why Life By The Book?

Why do I believe and advocate that Life…by the book is best?

While this is not a religious site (I am NOT a religious person by MY definition, though I AM a follower of Christ) it is a site that encompasses all that I believe is needed to make a person a solid, strong, empowered person who knows who they were created to BE in order to DO what they were created to DO in this life.

So you WILL find quotes, images, articles et al here that does deal with God & The Bible. Since I believe it is His word I therefore find it very profitable for teaching, learning and making our lives better.

I mean, who better to get advice from than the manufacturer or the owner’s manual?

That is NOT open to debate or discussion for me since I dealt with all of that years ago and since am absolutely positive that I am right and naturally it is my hope that you will discover the same for yourself. If not, we can still be friends and you can still learn a lot from some of the things you will find here.

However, this IS also not a site where you will find hatred or meanness. I try very hard (and fail quite often since I DO love sarcasm) to follow Christ’s commandment
to walk in Love.

But the main reason you will (and should) find Biblical posts, quotes, texts etc on here is because when you believe something strongly, you own it and it becomes a natural part of who you ARE. It empowers your every process.

If someone truly has the keys to success in Life… why not share them? Click To Tweet

If someone truly has the keys to success in Life… why not share them?

So, IF I truly DO believe that God’s Word has the keys for Success in Life then I would be a snarky, selfish piece of Boomer Swag to not share that information with anyone who wanted or felt they needed to hear it

…and I may be a LOT Of things, but selfish is not one of them. ūü§£


. Regardless of what you call it,
and for better or worse,
absolutely rules your life.

It determines the way you see every person
you meet and every action and event that happens

We are wise, when we give our mindset an
on going evaluation to assess whether it
is offering us a way of thinking
and viewing of the world that can
makes us happy and healthy along with
giving our self a decent shot at success

or if it is a negative leaning, twisted,
sad mindset that sets us up
to fail or even worse.. keeps us from even trying.

Which mindset do you have?

It’s heat awareness day

Beware & Prepare U+1f623

Not because it is so hot
(although depending on where
you live it very well may be)

But because it is about that time
of year when the temperatures begin
to rise and that can be a Real Pain
if you haven’t given some thought to
how you plan to “keep cool”

So…just Beware & Be Aware
it’s gonna start getting HOT!

The Power of #PAUSE

Social Media Is NOT Always Nicely Social


 Social Media is NOT always nice or social.

There is probably no one left on the planet
who hasn’t gone to a post on a social media site
and either been the recipient of a hate filled
comment or seen someone who has.

There's probably no one on the planet who hasn't felt the sting of a #socialmedia troll Click To Tweet

Sometimes, the rude comments are the result of
our making a less than kind (why would we do that?)
comment, but not always.

Sometimes, they are the result of trolls.


In internet slang, a troll  is a person who purposely
sows discord on the Internet sites by starting
arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory,
extraneous, or off-topic comments in an online community
(such as a forum, chat room, social site or blog)
with the intent of provoking readers into an emotional
response or of otherwise disrupting normal, on-topic
discussion, usually¬†for the troll’s amusement.

Other times the rude comments are from someone we
would consider a “normal, everyday person” who,
if we met them at a friend’s BBQ or at a little league game,
we might even consider them to be very kind & friendly.

Rude comments suck and are not what a decent, human being
would or should make to someone, but right now I want
to talk about Page Owners or Site Owners who are assholes.

Dear Page Owner,
You need to drop the attitude. It’s not funny,
doesn’t make you sound smart, and it puts you in
the same category as an everyday asshole troll.

I’m talking about the “It’s MY Page and I’ll post
what I want, so go eff yourself” attitude that so
many Facebook page owners adopt, especially
the more successful pages and especially when
their readers (fans) take issue with something they post.

So, they took issue with something you posted.

Why would you treat someone who has “liked and
followed you” and maybe even shared your stuff
with their friends, to such a rude, mean response?

Yes, it IS your page-that’s a fact. Diarrhea is also a FACT,
but no one wants to have it flung at their face.

I’m not talking about the page that is obviously
created to create controversy or strong emotions
from everyone who goes there.

You get what you get if you are on a controversial
page that goes against your beliefs, values or ideals.

Don’t like what they say. Don’t go there.

I’m talking about the Imposter Page, or “The Sneak” Page.

You know the ones.

The pages that masquerade as some sweet, funny or useful
page… like a business page offering business advice or tips,

or positive, inspirational, humorous, pages offering beautiful
images and warm fuzzies for everyone, only to suddenly
SLAM BAM you when you least expect it with a biased
political post or some other controversial comment,

and when someone is offended or complains with
a “Hey, why the political post? This is not a
political page” or “Can we just stick to the
warm fuzzies” they are¬†basically given the
ole’ asshole blowoff,
“Hey it’s MY page and I’ll post what I want. Don’t like it. Leave.”

Yes, it may be your page and
Yes, you CAN post what you want, but when you
created a page, put it on a sharing platform,
AND PRETENDED to be about something that
does NOT have controversial stressful content,
and asked others to like it and follow you,
and they DID like and follow you based on

you have a responsibility to those “fans”
to not be RUDE and blow them off if they
take exception to something you post
that is unexpected or controversial since
that would be out of context for your page.

No one is asking you to compromise YOUR values
or your page, but a kind HUMANE answer along
the lines of , “I’m sorry you didn’t like my post,
but I created this page so I CAN post my thoughts
or ideals along with my pretty stuff.

I know that I may have surprised you with
my political comment, but I DO post things
like that¬†occasionally and if you don’t
want to see those types of posts,
you may need to unfollow the page.

I do wish you well, and thank you for your past support”

A simple and kind response.

And then don’t follow it up with snide, rude,
mean spirited comments or images on your feed
after they leave,  creating snickers and guffaws from the
other members who are trying to suck up or act “cool”
along with the bully.

Some might say, “I tell them on my page what it is about”

That may be true… and is a great idea, but posting that your
page can have any type of post or even a disclaimer on the page
is not really enough, since FB has the newsfeed set up to allow
seeing, liking, and sharing of posts as well as liking and
following a page without ever going to the page,

so a simple “cut and paste” humane response is the easiest,
kindest (no big deal) thing to do and that way, no one who
used to be doing YOU a favor feels bullied,
blown off, cheated or hurt.

Yes, they DID do you a favor. A huge one as far
as page growth on FB goes.

If Facebook has you showing up in the newsfeed
of ANY of your fans, then ALL of your fans put you there.
Unless you paid for growth ads.

That is how Facebook works. So you DO owe them. They
have done you a huge favor- especially if you are not
paying to play

Sadly, we all come across this type of behavior
more often than is expected,  at least based on the
premise that most folks are genuinely nice.

However, today I was just a bit shocked to see
a page that I considered to be on the “classier side”
do it.

The page posted a controversial political post
that upset some of their fans who stand on the
other side of the political aisle and those fans
complained and unfollowed the page.

This was a page of beautifully created, inspirational and sometimes humorous images, so the political post was totally out of context
for the page’s voice, and the post took some of the fans by surprise.

The page then basically gave the ole stand by “blow off” comment,
complete with hateful goodbye, followed
by new images of rude, snide remarks, insulting
the fans who were upset enough to unfollow the page,
while everyone else on the page was snickering
like “mean girls” back in middle school.

I was a fan of the page because I admired
the page owner for her creativity and talent
…until now.

Today, I was appalled at her mean, childish behavior
(especially since many of her posts are about not being mean,
accepting others as they are, freedom of thought and expression,
tolerance, blah blah blah)

Anyway, I am not telling her or anyone how to run their page.

I am, however, suggesting that her behavior is
less than stellar for one who purports to believe
as she does and while she does have the right
(everyone screams about their rights, usually
when they are being asshats) to behave in any way
she wants, she does need to realize that the
characteristics that she so loudly disdains
as vulgar and unacceptable are the very characteristics
she displays with her mean, sarcastic, self important attitude.

I guess we are ALL hypocrites about something
…go figure.

Anyway, for those page owners who grow to have mega followers,
I know it is easy to get a bit swollen in the ego, but
no one likes a self centered jerk

…well, except maybe the other¬†“mean girls” on your page.

Go forth and Be the Change you want to see.

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